Why and how to put an end to excuses

As a young man in my twenties, I learned what it's called a master of excuses, and as a result of my constant stream of excuses instead of business I ended up unhappy and unfulfilled. I was consumed with guilt because I knew I had to do so much more, but I could not get out of the downward spiral of excuses. Why are we doing ourselves?

Here is what I think:

1. Performance anxiety

2. Shyness

3. Revised and overwrought

4. Not often enough significance and meaning in what we do

5. Attempting too much at once and then nothing

"It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult." Seneca

Make the decision today and take control of your life and the end of the guilt that stains your mind and your every action. It is important to know that the reason why we get these feelings of dissatisfaction, worthlessness and lack of interest in life, because we have stopped growing. We have stopped learning and improving and if that happens, we have to survive. Start actually live and live like you mean it!

"The men who do something and do not try are infinitely better than those who try to do nothing and succeed." - Lloyd Jones

Techniques destroy excuse

1. The excuse-flipping technique next time you plan to do something, just a list of excuses to pop into your head, turn around and the excuse that the exact opposite, do so immediately.

For example: I'm too shy to do it-is-If I do I'll be less shy.

Or: It is too difficult, it is difficult, but I do if I think of how the grounds instead of the reasons why I can not.

2. Once the bill is a direct apology appears in your mind, take this as a reference, immediate action to what you do, you must be worn. The second seems very hard to do anything!

3. If tough-talking begin to say apologies "to complete apology, because I do not want to know!" Tell yourself that no matter what excuses can you get (your mind can be very creative, with apologies to work), you're going to take action because you did one person, the things that come every time, no matter what, are!

You owe it to yourself to stop to apologize, and to live a life of purpose, fulfillment and growth. Many of us can apologize to rule our lives, and it is such an ingrained habit that is difficult to stop. When you begin to think we and the control of the spoiled child that is our mind, because it is so used to his way. And grow every day in every way, no matter how small the improvement.

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