Constant Constant improvement or debt?

Which do you prefer? Continuous improvement and constant feeling of guilt? The answer is of course the former although I know this is not always the first choice, chosen by most people. Why is that?

You could say it is laziness, but that does not make sense, because why would someone too lazy to improve themselves, and thus the quality of their lives? So what is it that makes people in debt and broken dreams, instead of indulging in a life of improvement and growth? After studying all the people and to observe what I did, I think the number one reason for this is the "apology syndrome. People have forgotten what it is to live these days and for some reason to believe that watching TV or in other activities trivial actually alive!

"It's the little decisions you and I make every day that determine our destiny." - Anthony Robbins

No matter what it is, those of us with the excuse syndrome "is repeatedly excuses why we should not or could not do.

For example: "I have no time." Or: "I wanted to and I know that it is important, but ..."

There are two questions and then ask:

1. So what's the excuse syndrome in the first place?

2. How can I rid myself of it?

First, the apology syndrome root and we are so busy and distracted by the work that we stop the activities and things that are important to us. If this happens, do the excuses. It can start with us how to read a book, but then never seem the time to make, and grows stronger and spreads to the larger effort. You may have always wanted to go abroad to Spain, but do you think moved for any reason, or you want to continue to educate themselves in school, but not just some. Whatever the excuse is always that a sign that you develop a habitual pattern of excuses.

Second, how to start a life of constant improvement?

It is easy, the next time you establish as an excuse as to why to do anything yet, that you apologize and watch this. Do this a few times and you can see that it happens a lot, as is the case with so many people. After you have done this a few times, you hope the next time verzname.orig ask, "Why am I doing this?", "What are my benefits as I do that?", "Is there anything more important than this, that I do instead? "

Make an extra effort to do what you want, you will say, because if you do not, what will happen is that you have a habit of failure, a lack of what you'll do as you say, build and Syndrome is the excuse most power.

Set goals every day, even if they are small, and they will do, because if you do, and consequently the tasks that you will take on a person to the continuous growth. This is a new habit, the old ones are replaced, and you see a person who always does what he / she says they do and no more excuses not to do to justify.

"Making the most of yourself, because that's all there for you." Ralph Waldo Emerson

Go to bed at night, proud to rely on themselves for an Achieve, anybody know what they say are going to want them, and not one loose ends all over the place does.

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