Therefore, self-development as important as the air we breathe

Self-development has been the most neglected area of most people, it is an area that we tend to unattended, a bit like the flowers to leave in the garden. It is not until we had a surplus of weeds under them, we go out into the garden on the great weed choked to remove the beautiful plants. If we pull weeds as they appear, they would not only easy, but would have no effect on the flowers.

As our thoughts are with beds full of weeds, weeds of doubt, guilt, weeds, weeds of shame and the like. We tend to not start early because they do not much influence on our lives. Slowly over the years, they start getting bigger and stronger when they are left to grow wild in our minds a negative effect on our emotions. We begin to see that they do nothing harmful to first for the process of caring for them. You start with a small effect on us and close to us and then begin an impact in all areas of our lives.

An example: I want to begin with doubts, with an individual Doubt is not something that is important to do it to start, it can be something small, like say yes, if they really want to say no to. I was, and still be so. It begins with the words "yes" for shopping and ends bad to go with me. This may seem very trivial at a glance, but if I repeat it again and again, I'll start to doubt myself. I will start, others asked me to go shopping and if I do go, I'm starting to feel guilty guilty.

Then, when starting the person who has asked to go shopping to say, terrible that I was not with them, I left with the feeling that I'm terrible, I'm bad, or that I do something wrong. All this with someone asking to go shopping and suddenly I feel terrible, bad or something wrong began to do. I'm not bad, terribly wrong, or do not want to go shopping myself, I have these feelings that I do not understand or know what to do.

Self-development is a great way to start the internal operations of all people to understand. When I say, I mean all people. There is not one person on this planet do not leave. It can not go shopping, can talk about absolutely everything, but I will make sure that you have them.

I have hundreds of them that I begin to recognize and process of change. Over the years, I have a journey to discover what I discovered tick, what makes me furious start, self-pity, sad, lonely, happy, excited and happy.

Most people do not choose to do so, they have the ability to everyone and everything, how they feel to blame. It is to ask their partners to go shopping guilt, it is the head of the debt that it is overloaded, it's their parents fault that they way they are. I used to, as my twenties and my thirties, then something has changed and you want to know what has changed? It seemed to me that changed, do not change my partner my boss not to change and not change my childhood, I changed.

I began to change how I saw how others see the world and then how I looked. I did this through a variety of personal development courses, which I found difficult courses I want to make sure not to visit classes and started my way to be a challenge. One way that I had more than thirty years, a road that I felt was comfortable for me, although I was not happy, contented and at peace, it was what I had always known. Although I know that I am not as happy as I had felt like he felt familiar to sit on my complaints, it felt warm and a bit musty, but it felt safe. Try something new felt unwell, but he will stay where I was, so I decided that if I feel unwell or so, I want something new to see if it would not try better. I am happy to say that it is much better. Much better than sitting place the same shit, day after day, month after month and year after year.

I have something that all people are scared, I changed and I went to the unknown with courage in my heart. I began to me to Paul, I think I was a coward then at least I could do nothing. When I found out I was a people pleaser as at least I could change. I like the way I had gone, then I would still be in the shit you put blame for my sorry state of life. A life that I wanted, but do not have the courage to change, until I have the courage, Paul had his face.

Self believe it or not, the development of the self. I do not develop, I'm not here to be changes, that is your job. You and I know you all have the ability to change on a daily basis, but you? Go to an independent development of course understand yourself better? Do you want a view of the sometimes painful truth to you? No, I think most people read, are in denial, not the river in Egypt, a place where you are afraid to look, for fear of what you find.

What do you do when you take a look deep inside? Here you will find everything you human, you will see that all things are normal and if you look hard enough you will find the true and authentic self. A person who say in a position to say yes, if you want and do not and will not feel guilty about it is. You can see the life on this planet to live life in true peace and contentment. They are not afraid rejection, you should not do what you think you have to do, and you begin to become true friends and loved ones, the ones that need to be designed around you. Not the individual to take out, take, take.

When I was in active addiction, I would do anything to get your respect, at the expense of my dignity. I would buy everything and everyone drinks because I wanted to do me up. Today, I have to buy drinks for you to want me, then I'm not tough enough to me. I'll buy you a drink because I want to buy one, you do not want me.

I like with you to your shop authorization to fake it I'm going to bring. We all met characters like me when I drank, they want your attention, they want to be funny, and they want the approval all the time. The thing is, if not agree with them destroyed, they are angry or sulk. Are you one of these characters, or do you have your own secrets, those who see you never to fear the light of day? Well, I can only my experience and it is this, if I love that I am the light of the world I come achieved in the darkness a long time.

What I found was, if I am honest with myself and others, I am left satisfied and feel like I am. When I wear masks, as if something that I did not start, I start to discover the beginning of fear. Today I have is that I warts and all. For this I have to go develop, grow and to keep the weeds in my garden. The weeds of doubt, the guilt of weeds and weeds, to jump when I stop weeding seems.

Finally, Self-development much as in the gym, when I stop, I tend to lose what I started to build. Self-development is the best investment I have ever given me a Christmas present that good is with me in the new year and the next year. A gift for me that I really deserve, you deserve really, if you invest the courage in their future. A future that not only look to the outside world, but in a good feeling to you.

So, if you read this and feel that you're not quite where you want, then the face of the most important person you ever face as you breathe, your face was. If you are now and have a good look in the mirror, do you love, who stared back from the glass? If you see honest with themselves, that the mirror never lies is unfortunately you are me, you can lie with your partner and you can lie on the world, but the person looks in the mirror of truth.

It is here that I return to you, because it matters is, is that you can change if you can stay the same.

It is the truth that free

It has been said that 90% of what we think is repeated day after day after day. If you do the same, how to keep in 2011 than in 2010, what you do.

If not, then even the only way I know to change.

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