We all have large errors and do not in any way the differences between people, but in their handling of these errors and let it affect their lives. Sorry, there are a very small percentage of people able to learn from their mistakes in a positive way and with their lives, never let the thoughts of failure to move to live in their heads. These are the kind of people, the great breakthroughs in science, religion and technology. People like Thomas Edison failed over 2,000 times before it finally the right component for the first light bulb or the Wright brothers that is not on numerous occasions.
The rest of us, stuttering through life, because we have our mistakes to us as a companion to pull us down and hold us back in to enjoy the adventure that life is to enable walking. Every time we experience errors and failures, we increase the problem, the inclusion of a fear of failure and attitudes in our subconscious. Every time we talk negatively about ourselves, we program our subconscious into exactly what we despise, failure to develop fear, weakness and vacillation. A deadly combination of negativity is stifling us and makes us fearful and negative people.
It is felt, of course, a situation that is not so good or bad an injury, and it should be felt for some time. Do not concentrate only on the negativity of the past, because all you do is to experience again and again. We learn things by repetition, and so imagine that you complain constantly, and negative thinking. What do you learn? Exactly, you go to a miserable person, nobody wants to be there to learn.
Well, if your experience is not a mistake or someone hurts to know. Look for the lessons and apply it to your life. After the lesson, the situations do not bother, you will not, because you know how to deal with them learned. Concentrate on the solution not the problem. Look at this equation:
+ + Problem does occur again focus on the problem of the problem meant = grief, misery, fear of failure, procrastination, excuse mentality
Now in this equation:
Problem is to find a solution + + learning from mistakes / location = growth and the strengthening of the spirit. It makes sense and is not afraid to try new things.
Which do you prefer? Exit to hang then negative thoughts. Do not try to stop them. Simply substitute something else instead of thinking of them something to distract from these limiting thoughts.
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